I heard about the shootings in Connecticut in passing. I didn’t get the full weight of what had occurred until Patricia called me and asked if I had heard about the hideous body count. A little research, and quick check of Facebook (which I was not surprised to find quite a few pages for the shooter, and how he was a great guy and a fantastic photographer), and I was up to speed with the rest of America. What bothered me further was the comment section under every news article, and a few Facebook posts.
In short, I unfriended someone today. Not a monumental accolade or something that need be noted in the archives of WordPress history, but it was the statement that summed up the illness of it all. In short, a man I knew some time ago, and considered intelligent, reasonable, and tolerant stated on his page that he was not surprised that this occurred because it happened in a nation without a soul. He then went on to give a paltry wave of the hand and condolences to the families that lost loved ones, but the first statement. “A nation without a soul” stuck hard in my craw like a jagged pebble.
There are now millions, if not billions, of condolences of perfect strangers floating across the world-wide web. Fundraisers are going up by the hour to help with relief efforts, pay for grief counselors, etc. We, as a nation, are painted in a muddy hue of soullessness because we do not adhere to the tenants of a self-declared ‘militant’ christian. My only response would be that the longer you look down the irons of the rifle you believe is protecting you, the more everything begins to look like a target or an enemy. That immediate attachment of this incident as an indictment of our nation as a whole is disgusting, ill reasoned, and ignorant.
Couple that with the almost instantaneous prattling of fear over gun control legislation, and how the President will steal away our automatic weapons before he has even had a chance to speak on this tragedy (which he did eloquently by the way) lends further to the stereotype that the right is so desperately trying to fight. My only request is that we stop worrying about our own fears for a moment, and think on others. Know for a moment that your family is safe, and, for those of you who have children, might dote on them a little more this evening; be inclined to hold them a little tighter tonight before they go off to bed. For those who lost a child or a loved one today, my deepest condolences.
The die has not been cast with regards to why this wretch took those lives, but the evidence piling up appears to indicate that there were issues at home (at last report his brother was found dead at the residence). In the days and weeks to come we will know everything about the gunman, his name being avoided here as I do not want to recognize the monster outright. No, we will find out the why, what, where, who, and when of everything in this case, then it will fade. My only request would be that we allow that process to be completed before we begin the process of trying to address the results.
Access to firearms and mental health are going to take front stage. Let us, for a change, be informed before we go into political battle and rattle our sabers for our cause, and decry the boogeymen of the opposition. This is, as has been stated by many public figures today, a time where consensus can be reached with little thought. The only matter in that case is giving the people time to grieve and learn what happened. Then, and only then, can we find a true answer that may very well prevent future incidents like this one.